<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3241872468228741467</id><updated>2012-02-17T00:59:39.193Z</updated><category term='on my mind'/><category term='family life'/><category term='me'/><category term='health'/><category term='eco-conscious'/><category term='friends'/><title type='text'>Little Red Bench</title><subtitle type='html'>Attatchment Parenting :: Natural Family Living :: Kitchen Live :: Crafting :: Simply Being</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://littleredbench.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3241872468228741467/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://littleredbench.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Valerie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00821841033085437673</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3241872468228741467.post-6755444405049870369</id><published>2007-04-24T15:09:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T21:36:11.317Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='on my mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='me'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='health'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><title type='text'>So many words...</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rKTjX74_yYo/Ri4QWnJat8I/AAAAAAAAAAM/UiRoFpDU3do/s1600-h/words_by_ssilence.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5056997412235294658" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: pointer; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rKTjX74_yYo/Ri4QWnJat8I/AAAAAAAAAAM/UiRoFpDU3do/s320/words_by_ssilence.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt;When looking for a picture that describes the term 'words' on Google I stumbled across the one above and that truly describes my feelings at the moment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are so (too) many things on my mind at the moment, so many different topics that I want to share and discuss with you. And yet deciding which one is not easy - there are several topics that I started writing and then just saved for a later date. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left" align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"&gt;Once again I had to realize today that even though I am rather mainstream considering the bulk of members of &lt;a href="mothering.com/discussions"&gt;MDC&lt;/a&gt; I am really more on the crunchy side in my little town (well, Julian is part-time carried in an Ergo, still breastfed at almost 7months, sleeping in the family bed, we eat as much organic as possible, no TV (quel horreur!), no plastic toys, cloth-diapering the babe, one car only, a small apartment -750sqf- for the four of us, unusual forms of parenting, delayed vaxing, natural health remedies...) and this is not always the best. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left" align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"&gt;Leonie showed symptomes of &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scarlet_fever"&gt;scarlet fever&lt;/a&gt; on friday. Our ped advised me to try curing it without antibiotics at first and deciding on monday if they are *really* needed at all. He gave Leonie a single dose of an homeopathic remedy and she was symptom-free on friday evening and back to her usual self on saturday evening. On monday we got the ped's ok for going back to kindergarten - where she went bac k to today, on wednesday, much to the dismay of most of the parents. There was talking behind my back, from people I had considered being some sort if *friends* which hurts me most. They think that I am irresponsible and risking to infect all the other children while I heard the total opposit from someone who I consider being one of the most informed doctors out there. I know, I should just shrug it off but I can't. It hurts when people judge me. Nono, my husband, tells me that I should get a thicker skin. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"&gt;&lt;div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left" align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do you think? I am too easily hurt by others? Was I really irresponsible?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left" align="left"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3241872468228741467-6755444405049870369?l=littleredbench.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://littleredbench.blogspot.com/feeds/6755444405049870369/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3241872468228741467&amp;postID=6755444405049870369' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3241872468228741467/posts/default/6755444405049870369'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3241872468228741467/posts/default/6755444405049870369'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://littleredbench.blogspot.com/2007/04/so-many-words.html' title='So many words...'/><author><name>Valerie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00821841033085437673</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rKTjX74_yYo/Ri4QWnJat8I/AAAAAAAAAAM/UiRoFpDU3do/s72-c/words_by_ssilence.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3241872468228741467.post-76047969253723771</id><published>2007-04-22T15:24:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-22T15:27:14.380+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='me'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='eco-conscious'/><title type='text'>For the first time</title><content type='html'>For the in my life I am writing a blog.&lt;br /&gt;There are so many things on my mind that I am thinking about all day long, that I want to share with other, like-minded people. Being different and being a young mama isn't always easy in a town where SUV-driving-married-to-consultants-hip-and-trendy mamas are the norm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Raising my children as healthy and natural as possible, with some Waldorf elements strewn in is my way.&lt;br /&gt;Trying new, vegetarian and omnivore recipes is on my agenda.&lt;br /&gt;Becoming more calm with my children is my personal goal.&lt;br /&gt;Owning a little crunchy coffeeshop in our town, where I feature local artists, sell uncommon books, cloth diapers&amp;supplies, organic baby&amp;amp;children's clothing, organize readings and events and host LLL nursing meetings is my plan for the future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am a 24 year old mama of two (Leonie 3.25 yrs old and Julian, 6.5 months old) , venturing out into the world of blogging.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3241872468228741467-76047969253723771?l=littleredbench.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://littleredbench.blogspot.com/feeds/76047969253723771/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3241872468228741467&amp;postID=76047969253723771' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3241872468228741467/posts/default/76047969253723771'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3241872468228741467/posts/default/76047969253723771'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://littleredbench.blogspot.com/2007/04/for-first-time_22.html' title='For the first time'/><author><name>Valerie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00821841033085437673</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry></feed>
